Left Without A Choice

Life is a pretty good game and has no set rules. The one that seems to be the best trick today may turn out to be the worst tomorrow. And you never know when you were played over by life!

In a game there can be two things, either you ‘lose’ or you ’win’. But In life's game there is this possibility that you might have a single way or more, but at times all of them lead to 'No Win'. Any of the ways you choose you are the looser. You are Left without any choice other than letting go everything. Even the most cherished dreams. I too lost and won many things in life. But when I wanted to win I lost and fell on my face. And I am Happy about it!

"A sad thing in life is that sometimes you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go."

Because it is destined to be like that. Now I won’t agree that ’Men is the master of his own destiny’. Coz when two people are together and when you want the other to be happy, you cannot force your destiny on the other.

What is this destiny that makes things happen? No matter how hurt we may be, but no one cares. And these things, that we lose in the course of our life are the ones which help us to carry on, but still we don't own them. Does everyone feel the same way when they lose a precious thing in life? Do they cry, they shout and listen to those emotional numbers that reminds them of the days they were happy being with that someone or something? Do they visit the same old places in search of the pieces of shattered dreams or recollect some more memories?

Then there is a second thought that comes to my mind. What we actually lost? Who or what left us?
And all that I can answer is that we have lost nothing and no one left us. Coz the moments that we crave for today and the moments that we want to live again and again are still there in our mind and heart. So those moments are not lost, those feelings of being in love are not lost, those feeling of feeling special are not lost, those moments of owing something and feeling happy about it are not lost. Those moments of true bliss are not lost. And the entity that gave us those precious moments of life still lives in the moments that we crave for today. So I would never say that someone or something has left us, coz nobody actually has, coz they still live in our thoughts and in those special moments we shared.

Though I lost many a battles, but I won a lot of in the process of losing. At least I am the proud owner of those moments which are special to me and those moments tell me how special I am and they make me hope for the best in life.